Sunday, December 4, 2011

If you Hear it enough your start to believe it…or do you?



      The music industry is estimated to bring in 40 billion dollars a year. Due the industry influence and power, it is important to understand the way in which the products of this industry (i.e. artists, music, videos…) influence people. This industry is far reaching and therefore can do a tremendous amount of good; on the other hand depending on what is being put out in terms of messages found in the lyrical content of popular songs/ artists the effects of music can be damaging. Music affects the way in which people speak, dress, talk, look, and in some cases think. In the culture of music, specifically Rap/ Hip Hop men and women enable and support practices that work against the role of women as a part of society that should be valued for more than their bodies.

       The lyrics and videos that are associated with Rap/ Hip Hop music exploit women as sexual commodities. In an article from the Eye on Culture paper titled “Listen to Those Lyrics” by Colleen Raezler she takes a look at top songs and the messages their lyrics send. “ Singing sexually degrading lyrics is not the exclusive province of male performers” (p.4); this point from Raezler highlights the notion that within the music world women play a role in the degrading and derogatory messages that are put forth.  Ear catching examples of this is Janet Jackson saying “Tonight my body is an exhibition baby” in her song “Feedback” or Mariah Carey repeatedly saying “touch my body, play with me some more” in her song “Touch My Body”. The lines from these songs might appear insignificant or harmless but to those that are influenced by what popular music artists have to say, these messages could become the way they view the world. For a female that looks up to Mariah or Janet their songs could be seen as instruction manuals around the way to live. Similarly artist such as Lil Wayne who puts out explicit verses such as “she say he so sweet make her wanna lick the rapper’’ wield an influence over young people that may influence them to believe that women’s sexual ability is what is most significant about them as members of society.

        Young women and men get a lot of their ideas about the way females should look and be treated from the popular music they listen to. In her article for the Daily News, Tina Moore quoted that “We must deal with the fact that “ho” and the b-word are words that are wrong from anybody’s lips, the Rev. Al Sharpton said after CBS fired radio host Don Imus over his remarks about the Rutgers women’s basketball team” (p.1). Moore is helping to highlight the way in which the words that come through popular music can be damaging and using words that are degrading to a category of people in simply not acceptable. Moore goes on to point out that Rap/Hip Hop is a roughly 30 year old genre that has always faced harsh criticism by groups that take offense to certain lyrical content.  

        Females’ sense of self is negatively impacted by the images and lyrical messages they are exposed to in the music and music videos of rap/hip hop music. As the FOCUS… organization states on their website “Teens have their own cultural beliefs about what is normal sexual behavior…the infrequent portrayals of sexual risks on TV, such as disease and pregnancy, trivialize the importance of sexual responsibility”. For much of the American culture reckless sexual behavior seems to be celebrated through various parts of the media, particularly music. This is why it is important to see that people are influenced by the music they hear and the videos they see that send the message that a female has to be physically appealing to male to have worth or a woman’s worth goes as far as her role as a sexual object.

        It might be argued that the music industry, particularly rap/hip hop music, affords women the opportunity to gain money, independence, and positions of influence. But it can be argued that within these opportunities women have to demean themselves to get to where they want to be. For instance artists such as Lil’ Kim and Nicky Minaj are very popular females in the hip hop/ rap arena a large part of the popularity these women experience is due to the way they chose to look physically. More specifically Lil’ Kim has had implants put in, while there is much speculation around whether Nicky Minaj has had but implants. Therefore while we see these females in positions of power it interesting to notice that male rap/hip hop artists are not help to the same standards or expectations to modify their bodies to get ahead.

         Some may also say that music is a place of self-expression but when one has an influence over many others, especially young minds, his or her responsibility goes beyond the self. According to a study done by FOCUS Adolescent services “Girls who watched more than 14 hours of rap music per week were more likely to have multiple sex partners and be diagnosed with a sexually transmitted disease”. With such a direct connections being made between sexual behavior/ health and the intake of rap music it is important for artist to understand the responsibility they have not only to express themselves but to have a positive impact on those that look up to them.

       Rap/ Hip Hop are a part of the music industry that brings to light highly publicized ideas and messages that are demeaning to women. Unfortunately within this industry women take part in creating music and taking roles that perpetuate the same messages that degrade them. The music industry has made a way for women to earn power, money, and influential status but the women in this industry can mainly do so by taking part by selling themselves to the public as sexual commodities. The question is, are some musical icons selling the public ideas that do more harm than good? The idea of the role one can play in society as a woman or man is not something to be bought or sold. This is a responsibility that should be taken to heart by those that hold an influence over the minds or millions; musicians hold such power.


Saturday, November 26, 2011

Paradise...

         As I was spending a beautiful time with family and friends this weekend I began to feel the strange pang of nostalgia. It wasn’t simply yearning to relive certain memories or wanting to go back to a certain time. It was a yearning to back to a time when life appeared simpler and everything/ anything seemed to float in the realm of possible. As we get older sometimes it appears that we become more able, while becoming less able at the same time. How you may ask? When your little you need people to help you do the simplest things from walking to talking, but we never need any one to tell us how to imagine. We can imagine the most beautiful things when we are little; we can believe in anything and it seems that as we get older we lose sight of this. The ability to imagine and believe almost has to be rediscovered and retaught. It is a journey within itself to get past all that we learn as we grow and hold unto our imagination. We have to be careful not to be disillusioned and feed into the urge to see things as impossible. Rather we have to take what, we have learned and move things that seem impossible to the realm of possibility.

     Sometimes I feel like this kind of combination can help us to “be the change we want to see in the world”. I don’t want to sound unrealistic or idealistic, but I’m always thinking about people and what it means to be human? What does it mean to be loved and/or give love?, what does it mean to understand and/or be understood?, what does it mean to make a difference and/or be the difference?, what does it mean to need and/or to be needed?, what does it me to believe and/ or to be believed in? Maybe I think too much but there is so much that good people can do with ingenuity and imagination. The issue is, how do we hold unto the imagination that made us believe everything can be done if we simply try. The song Paradise by Coldplay came out very recently and I can’t get it out of my head. I think it captures some of the sentiments I’m attempting to express in this blog. The most beautiful and sad line in this song is “the wheels break the butterfly”. This is going to sound cheesy, but I honestly think as educators we can all be butterflies and help our student to become butterflies, but we have to navigate so that “wheels” of life may roll over us, move us, change us, but never break us. If you haven’t heard this song, I think you'll enjoy itJ

Paradise by Coldplay lyrics
When she was just a girl
She expected the world
But it flew away from her reach so
She ran away in her sleep
and dreamed of
Para-para-paradise, Para-para-paradise, Para-para-paradise
Every time she closed her eyes

When she was just a girl
She expected the world
But it flew away from her reach
and the bullets catch in her teeth
Life goes on, it gets so heavy
The wheel breaks the butterfly
Every tear a waterfall
In the night the stormy night she'll close her eyes
In the night the stormy night away she'd fly
and dreams of
Para-para-paradise
Para-para-paradise
Para-para-paradise

Oh oh oh oh oh oh-oh-oh
She'd dream of
Para-para-paradise
Para-para-paradise
Para-para-paradise
Oh oh oh oh oh oh-oh-oh-oh
lalalalalalalalalalala
And so lying underneath those stormy skies
She'd say, "oh, ohohohoh I know the sun must set to rise"
This could be
Para-para-paradise
Para-para-paradise
Para-para-paradise
Oh oh oh oh oh oh-oh-oh
This could be
Para-para-paradise
Para-para-paradise
This could be
Para-para-paradise
Oh oh oh oh oh oh-oh-oh-oh

Monday, November 21, 2011

Some thoughts on "What are we going to do...?"

     In her blog last week Jana discussed the issue of bullying. As Jana pointed out we are seeing the issue and the irreversible repercussions of it in the media and in the schools. At the end of her blog Jana asked "what are we going to do about it?"; this struck me as a sort of call to action for us as future educators. I agree that this is something that we will have to contend with in the school environment and we have to decide what approach we are going to take. This is very challenging because there are so many sides and possible causes of these issues. This begs the question of how do we rally against something, when it comes from so many directions, some of which we cannot directly see or change?
   When I read the part about their being a website, dedicated to the sole purpose of calling young females sluts after others post their picture on the site, I began to realize the bullying culture that we have come to know is not accident.
      We are a society, that is in many ways built on competition; people, especially children/ adolescents, and pushed to be "better than", "do better than", or "look like" someone. The media is not solely to blame even though there is a lot to be said for an entity that does not hesitate to call a healthy looking young actress "overweight" then wonder why our young girls/ women have body issues. A television or magazine shouldn't be raising us so, where are the parents or families of the young people? Sadly they are sometimes right beside their children, making fun of or putting down someone else. Where are the roots of the culture of bullying? Is from a competitive mentality as a society that has gone to far? Is a quest to fit in the has taken on a violent persona? Is it a breakdown of support that pushes a person to victimize or become a victim? Is it the media's blatant disregard for its influence and the responsibility that comes with that? These are all questions that as we confront the issue of bullying, we have to contend with and try to understand.

Monday, November 14, 2011

How Much can you or I change?

     As I was doing some research for one of my other classes I came across this quote, "There will always be men struggling to change, and there will always be those who are controlled by the past." ~Ernest Gaines It got me thinking about that state of the world and how things are happening? It is always a struggle for those who want to make a positive change in the world to move forward, because the amount of things that are "wrong" with the world can be very overwhelming. Is our history and our present paralyzing us? It seems that there is a strange balancing act the people who seek to do go have to play of learning from the past and moving “past” the past. The past or history is like a prescription for good, take the right dose and you move on (feel better), take too much and you become stuck and immobile, or take too little and the urge to “do something” is not there. It is essential that we combat this dilemma, if we want to make “the world a better place”. Sorry for the cliché but how can we create a better place without becoming suffocated by the overwhelming realities of what makes the world a not so great place.
     As a future teacher I hope to do my part in making my students feel that they can and must play an active part in the world for themselves and everyone else. The problem I am still grappling with my relationship with the world. I think a lot of people struggle with this idea. There are many attempts to “heal the world” if we buy a wristband here or a shirt there we can help the issues faced today. I buy quite a few things following the idea that I am contributing to a “noble” cause.  But is this enough? I’m still trying to figure work this out and I will be for some time to come.

Monday, November 7, 2011

"Two Rivers that Meet..." (STAR Revision)

    The trees smile down on as you come back to each other, barely letting the other breathe. You two are a metaphor of love because when the darkness creates uncertainty in your waters you inevitably come back to one another. Maybe, humans could learn something from you two rivers...that always meet. The ground beneath you two is always moving because you two crash into each other and stir it up. Always meeting with the same urgency and flow, unless an unexpected wind happens to blow.
     The saturated ground is constantly moving under the two of you; it never gets a chance to breathe as you collide one into the other, ending in a place where two makes one. The two of you are constantly pushing against each other, one bending to the other's will. You two are eventually meshing into a single movement that picks up or pushes away everything in its path. You upheave the boulders otherwise called "life". Together you both teach us loyalty, faithfulness, and honesty. Teaching loyalty to another human being, faithfulness to the truth, and honesty about what motivates us to come together.

Monday, October 31, 2011

"Snapped"...Yikes

     
I really enjoy watching horror movies, sometimes it's to get a good laugh and sometimes to get a good scare. I similarly enjoy watching shows about crime, some of my favorites include "Law and Order, "Criminal Minds", and "Snapped". This Halloween weekend I watched a lot of horror movies and crime shows ; it got me thinking. I started to feel a little sick about what these movies, shows, and entertainment like this say about our world. As much as I like watching these things, I began to think about the way that "art imitates life". Even though it is debatable to some, a lot of film and television is art. So what is our art saying about us. Is our world really that horrific, bloody, violent, and gory that our entertainment is simply imitating what we see in real life? Granted horror movies would be a gross exaggeration of what could or would happen in real life but it is still disturbing to think that these things do happen in any way in real life. I mean the ideas for horror films and crime shows come from somewhere, right? What's chilling is that somewhere is most likely reality.

Then I thought about if some of what we see in film and television reflects our world, to some extent, what are the chances that the wrong people could get ideas from this. This may sound funny, but when I was watching "Criminal Minds", I kept thinking doesn't this show give someone who may be psychotic and/ or evil the perfect road map to making unspeakable crimes a reality. Then I started to think what if "life started to imitate art". I think the relationships between art and life are interchangeable in some ways. If they could come to life, wouldn't that make what we see on television and in the movies an even bigger issue? For me this is something to think about, when in the line between entertainment and too much crossed. People have asked this question over many issues sex, violence, and so much more. Under the larger umbrella of violence in TV and film is where my thoughts about hat our film and TV say about us lie.

      "Snapped" is a show that takes the story of one woman each episode and explores what led to her committing some irreversible act of violence, usually murder. "Snapped" depicts “true” stories and any episode could be played out like a "fictional" crime drama. This left me with how far are we from the violence we see on TV. Are we really that far removed or has the violence we watch become what we are as a society.

Monday, October 24, 2011

No room for the Heart in the King's Court

    
      She woke up in another room, not her own. It was still dark outside and something in the air felt different. As she looked to her side she noticed a melted candle that seemed to have just gone out. A gasp came out, as she began to realize that she was not in her bed, her room, her house, or even her time. As she sat up and looked around she noticed other beds around and a door that looked like the entrance to a chamber that she read about. As she moved to get up, she heard a light voice say “Belisia”; before she was able to rise an excited young girl grabbed her arm.


      Belisia said “who are you?”


     “It’s me Clara, don’t be silly you we must be up and ready to attend to the Queen when she awakes”, replied Clara.


     Belisia allowed herself to be led by Clara, as she still could not understand where she was and why? Clara started rambling on about some news involving the Queen and a possible heir. Belisia’s head was spinning where was she? Belisia asked Clara “what Queen are we attending to?”


     “Queen Anne! have you hit your head ? You’re a lady in waiting to the Queen of England and you act as if you’ve never heard her name.” said Clara.


  As Belisia’s was starting to understand where she was and began to feel that this was not a dream, she decided it’s best to stay quiet, as she did not want anyone to believe she was going mad. But the truth is she is a 17 year old girl that has gone to bed in 2011 and woken up to the world of 1953 as lady in waiting to King Henry VIII’ s second wife Anne Boleyn.

Monday, October 17, 2011

What happened to Common Sense... in Education???

    This week while I was walking around and working with the students at the highschool where I will be student teaching, I overheard a very interesting conversation. A student was talking about a grade she got for the mid-term marking period. She recieved a D in one of her classes and according to her when she went to ask the teacher why the response  was " we did not do much in this class, so there was not much to grade you on; don't worry about it too much." In response to this the student said that she felt the teacher should get a D not  her. It occured to me that the student was making a profound point how can you fail someone for what you acknowledge is not their doing; if a student does not recieve "enough" work in a class who's fault is that? How the could the reason the tacher gave be reasonable? It is no wonder that students sometimes feel cheated or unheard in school If I'm going to get graded based on things out of my realm of control, why try to succeed?
      I know I'm being a bit dramatic and there is a chance that the student was not correctly quoting what the teacher said, but this still causes me to think about the instances where common sense could make a great difference. Specifically in education common sense could be the difference between effective teaching and not so effective teaching. If teachers stopped and thought about how they would react if someone did to them what they do/ are doing to their students a lot of "bad" teaching could be avoided. There are so many times when putting ourselves in the place of the student could make a world of difference and prevent a lot of negative things from taking place in the classroom. For instance if that teacher thought about how she would feel if somone failed her then said it was because they( the teacher) did not give enough work, how would she feel. I don't think she would be thrilled about the prospect of failing over something that is not about her performance, but is attributed to someone else's mistake. Mabye if the teacher thought about this she would have been more pratical when giving her grades. You could tell that the student has lost faith in and respect for her teacher from this small instance. I feel like that happens quite often in education; "the bottom line is if I(the teacher) didn't like it, why would they (the students)." I hope that I always remember to  reflect in this way once I begin to teach. The lesson I learned , from this student is that a little common sense goes a long way.

Sunday, October 9, 2011

“The Truth does not set us all Free”- Critical Lens Essay Revised

Critical Lens Essay

Arielle Hall

October 4, 2011

Professor Sieben



“The Truth does not set us all Free”





           William James states that “The greatest enemy of any one of our truths may be the rest of our truths”. This is a hard truth to understand and take in, but through a critical look into two texts, I will provide evidence to the fact that many times the truth of one person is destroyed or stifled by the truth and values of others in a given society. In The Help by Kathryn Stockett and the film, The Stoning of Soraya M. directed by Cyrus Nowasteh, the way in which truth for one can be turned into something detrimental by others becomes a painful reality and I will demonstrate the way in which these two pieces speak to the truth of James’s point. The truth for Skeeter Phelan in The Help turns out to be personally freeing but is attacked by the popular culture in her world; with the consequence of losing her life Soraya stands by her truth even though the culture of her world does not respect a woman’s truth. Therefore, using their truth to discredit hers.

        In The Help by Kathryn Stockett the truth that Skeeter helps bring to life destroys a part of her social life. Skeeter provides a stage for the women of color, who are labeled “the help”, to tell their stories; therefore, they give an inside look into the racism that was present in Mississippi during the 1960’s. By doing this, Skeeter being a white young woman lost some of the ties she had to her friends, such as Hilly Holbrook and Elizabeth Leefoot, who find comfort in their existence as the “dominant” race. Many of the white women in the novel do not want to acknowledge the racism and state of society that Skeeter gives voice to; therefore they penalize Skeeter for her version of the truth. “You got nothing left her but enemies in the Junior League and a mama that’s gonna drive you to drink. You done burned ever bridge there is. And you ain’t never gone get another boyfriend in this town and everybody knows it. So don’t walk you white butt to New York, run it” (Sockett). In this excerpt, Skeeter is getting advice from Aibeleen about possibly leaving Mississippi for New York. Also this quote describes the negative affect that writing a book with the help of colored women in Mississippi had on Skeeter’s life. Skeeter lost a part of her life in sharing the truth because others chose to stick to a truth that helps them to feel justified in their racist thoughts and actions. There are also characters such as Hilly who serve as a foil for Skeeter because Hilly represents the racist ideologies of her time, reinforcing the negative reaction from many to what Skeeter does.  Also the point of views from which the novel is told through Aibileen, Minny, and Skeeter enforce the side which the author is encouraging readers to identify with as.

       Soraya in The Stoning of Soraya M. directed by Cyrus Nowasteh lost her life because she maintained her truth that was not accepted by the dominant gender of her world. The film, set in 1986 Iran, is centered around the incredible injustice done to an innocent young women, left powerless against the males in her society. Soraya insists that she is innocent because her husband has made a lie up in order to be rid of Soraya as a wife, so that he may marry a younger female. Soraya’s penalty for infidelity is death by stoning. Soraya’s cousin proclaiming her innocence says to a prominent figure who could stop the stoning, “Yes it’s clear, all women are guilty, and all men are innocent”. This scene in the film speaks to the fact that a women’s truth has no place in male dominated world, where women are as the men say they are. This is what allows Soraya to still face persecution, even after proclaiming the truth. The truth of the men in Soraya’s world leaves her powerless and they attack her truth by standing behind their version of the truth. Soraya’s death, which is graphically shown in the movie, symbolizes the idea that even the innocent and honest can be destroyed among people who value their own truth and refuse to see that of others. While being stoned, Soraya is dressed in white and this seems to be a purposeful choice as a last testament to her innocence and honesty, because white represents purity for some. As a narrator Soraya’s aunt has a sorrowful and dark tone that foreshadows something horrific about to take place.

     The Help and The Stoning of Soraya M. differ in their tone and the ways in which they support the quote by James. In The Help there is a lighter tone and Stockett uses characterization, point of view, setting, and other elements to create a vivid picture for readers of life in Mississippi during the 1960’s, for white and colored women. In The Stoning of Soraya M., Cyrus Nowrasteh uses symbolism, dialogue, setting, and mood to create a world where injustice breathes freely. Both texts are based on real historical occurrences. The Help uses the backdrop of a time were racism and prejudice were prevalent in America as an arena to bring certain truths and ideas to light. The Stoning of Soraya M. is based on a true story and is set during a time when the rights of women were dangerously suppressed in Iran. These pieces do something interesting by taking something that was real to bring the audience into the story, helping us to understand the truths being conveyed by the stories, which go deeper than the individual situations of the characters.

           The honesty of “The greatest enemy of any one of our truths may be the rest of our truths” written by William James is found throughout the stories of the novel The Help by Kathryn Stockett and The Stoning of Soraya M, directed by Cyrus Nowrasteh. The Help tells of the story of three women and the ways their lives intertwine in 1960’s Mississippi; Stockett use of these characters conveys the way in which some truths are not freeing or positive for everyone. One’s truth can be destroyed by the values/ truths of others. In The Stoning of Soraya M. we are painfully reminded that the truth has deadly consequences when it is not accepted by others and is attacked. Nowrasteh’s use of tone and mood help push this idea to the forefront.  These pieces and the quote from James prove that the truth is real but its survival is a matter or circumstance.
* I wanted to color my revisions to make them clear, but most of my revising was cutting what seemed unecessary or more like summary.

Monday, October 3, 2011

“The Truth does not set us all Free” -Critical Lens Essay


           William James states that “The greatest enemy of any one of our truths may be the rest of our truths”. This is a hard truth to understand and take in but through a critical look into two texts, I will provide evidence to the fact that many times the truth of one person is destroyed or stifled by the truth and values of others in a given society. In the book The Help by Kathryn Stockett and the film The Stoning of Soraya M. directed by Cyrus Nowasteh the way in which truth for one can be turned into something detrimental by others becomes a painful reality and I will demonstrate the way in which these two pieces speak to the truth of James’s point. The truth for Skeeter Phelan in, The Help turns out to be personally freeing but is attacked by the popular culture in her world; with the consequence of losing her life Soraya stands by her truth even though the culture of her world does not respect a woman’s truth, therefore using their own truth to discredit hers.
        In The Help by Kathryn Stockett the truth that Skeeter helps bring to life destroys a part of her social life, because she supports a truth that some are not ready to admit or accept.  Skeeter provides a stage for the women of color, who are labeled at “the help”, to tell their stories; therefore they give an inside look into the racism that was present in Mississippi during the 1960’s. By doing this Skeeter being a white young woman lost some of the ties she had to her friends, such as Hilly Holbrook and Elizabeth Leefoot, who find comfort in their existence as the “dominant” race. Many of the white women in the novel do not want to acknowledge the racism and state of society that Hilly helps give voice to; therefore they penalize Hilly for her version of the truth. “You got nothing left her but enemies in the Junior League and a mama that’s gonna drive you to drink. You done burned ever bridge there is. And you ain’t never gone get another boyfriend in this town and everybody knows it. So don’t walk you white butt to New York, run it” (Sockett). In this excerpt Skeeter is getting advice from Aibeleen about possibly leaving Mississippi for New York. Also this quote describes the negative affect that writing a book with the help of colored women in Mississippi had on Skeeter’s life. Skeeter lost a part of her life in sharing the truth because others chose to stick to a truth that helps them to feel justified in their racist thoughts and actions. There are also characters such as Hilly who serves as a foil for Skeeter because Hilly represents the racist ideologies of her time, reinforcing the negative reaction from many to what Skeeter does.  Also the point of views from which the novel is told through Aibileen, Minny, and Skeeter enforce the side which the author is encouraging readers to identify with as just.
       Soraya in The Stoning of Soraya M. directed by Cyrus Nowasteh lost her life because she maintained her truth that was not accepted by the dominant gender of her world. The film set in 1986 Iran, is centered around the incredible injustice done to an innocent young women, left powerless against the males in her society. After being accused of infidelity by her husband, Soraya insists that she is innocent because her husband has made this lie up in order to be rid of Soraya as a wife, so that he may marry a younger female. In this time the penalty for infidelity for women is death by stoning. Soraya’s cousin proclaiming her innocence says to a prominent figure who could stop the stoning, “Yes it’s clear, all women are guilty, and all men are innocent”. This scene in the film speaks to the fact that a women’s truth has no place in male dominated world, where women are as the men say they are. This is what allows Soraya to still face persecution, even after proclaiming the truth. The truth of the men in Soraya’s world leaves her powerless and they attack her truth by standing behind their version of the truth. Soraya’s death which is graphically shown in the movie, symbolizes the idea that even the innocent and honest can be destroyed among people who value their own truth and refuse to see that of others. While being stoned Soraya is dressed in white and this seems to be a purposeful choice as a last testament to her innocence and honesty, because white represents purity for some. Soraya’s aunt who narrates parts of the film has a sorrowful and dark tone that foreshadows something horrific about to take place.
     The Help and The Stoning of Soraya M. differ in their tone and the ways in which they support the quote by James. In The Help there is a lighter tone and Stockett uses character, point of view , setting, and other elements to create a vivid picture for readers of life in Mississippi during the 1960’s, for white and colored women. In The Stoning of Soraya M., Cyrus Nowrasteh uses symbolism, dialogue, setting, and mood to create a world where injustice breathes freely. The tone of the film is much darker than in the novel, because there is not much hope for change in the film until the end, whereas The Help is sprinkled with hope of a positive change to come. Both texts are based on real historical occurrences. The Help uses the backdrop of a time were racism and prejudice were prevalent in America as an arena to bring certain truths and ideas to light. The Stoning of Soraya M. is based on a true story and is set during a time when the rights of women were dangerously suppressed in Iran. These pieces do something interesting by taking something that was real to bring the audience into the story, helping us to understand the truths being conveyed by the stories, which h go deeper than the individual situations of the characters.
           The honesty of “The greatest enemy of any one of our truths may be the rest of our truths” written by William James is found throughout the stories of the novel The Help by Kathryn Stockett and The Stoning of Soraya M, directed by Cyrus Nowrasteh. The Help tells of the story of three women and the ways their lives intertwine in 1960’s Mississippi; Stockett use of these characters conveys the way in which some truths are not freeing or positive from everyone. One’s truth can be destroyed by the values/ truths of others. Similarly in The Stoning of Soraya M. we are painfully reminded that the truth has deadly consequences when it is not accepted by others and is attacked. Nowrasteh’s use of tone and mood help push this idea to the forefront.  These pieces and the quote from James prove that the truth is real but its survival is a matter or circumstance.

Monday, September 26, 2011

Expected Racism... Really?

Hi,
    I wasn't sure what I wanted to write about this week. As I was driving to get my first cup of coffee out of at least three for the day I heard something disturbing on the radio. According to the radio hosts speaking this morning, recently, a hockey play by the name of Wayne Simmonds, of the Philadelphia Flyers,  had a banana peel thrown at him in a game against the Detroit Red Wings. The fan of the opposing team was apparently making it a point to imply that Simmonds was a "monkey", which is a common derrogatory idea used against African Americans. In response to this incident Simmonds indicated that he is used to things like this because in a sport where he is the minority, he has had things like this happen to him numerous times. Simmonds said that he is not going to continue addressing the issue because it is so negative and sometimes you learn to live with "expected racism".Here is one of the articles about the incident:  http://aol.sportingnews.com/nhl/story/2011-09-22/flyers-wayne-simmonds-has-banana-thrown-at-him-during-shootout
     On the radio this morning listeners were asked to call in and share if they felt that there are times when one "expects racism" and there feelings about that. It was unnerving to me how many people from a variety of races and ethnicities called in to share their experineces with this and their thoughts. What struck me about this is that I think people feel that we are moving towards a better time where discrimination becomes a thing of the past. I know inequalities and discrimination of different kinds will never completely go away, but what I heard today got me thinking, "Are we really simply overlooking instances of racism and becoming helplessly comfortable with it?" If this is the case then we as a society are missing the point completely because as opposed to actively working against a very human issue, we may just be silently enabling it because some may be tired of fighting and some may feel helpless against.
      This really saddens me because as I relflected on the stories I heard on the radio, some of my own experineces and encounters sprang into my mind and I realized this may be more deeply embedded in our society than we think and because we may be ignorant or unaware of it, we unknowingly allow this phenomena of "expected racism" to grow and fester. I know I never thought of racism as something that one could come to expect, but I find that even for myself I sort of expect certian reactions in certain places. People of any race or ethnicity should not have to live in world where this is okay, from listening to the radio and the listeners stories this morning I realize we have a bigger "human" issue on our hands. Hopefully we can work towards true unity or at the very least an understanding of oneanother that transcends "expecting racism".

How do you Speak?

     I have been thinking about the different ways in which we speak and express ourselves. I don't always think of speaking in the traditional sense in that I feel that we all speak in our own way, that's why we are givin different gifts and talents. Mathematicians speak with numbers, some speak through instruments, some speak through movement, and the ways to speak go on. I feel that it is important for a person to embrace their way of speaking and this should be encouraged by others. When people find how they speak, they grow, feel freer, and figure out what they have to offer themselves and the world. Sometimes the need to be different is suppressed because it doesn't fit the neat categories that people are sometimes placed in, but when you don't respect someone's gift to me that is like taking away their voice. Last year  I was thinking about this and I wrote the following little poem to express my thoughts:
"If I can't speak Let Me..." (My pen=my mouth)

If I can't speak, let me write.
If  can't speak, let me dance.
If I can't speak, let me walk.
If I can't speak, let me run.
If I can't speak, let me sing.
If I can't speak, let me play.
If I can't speak, let me listen.
If I can't speak, let me in.
If I can't speak, let me see.
If I can't speak just watch me, there is a deeper story within.
 Allow me to be me and my unravelling will begin.
 If you let me speak in my soon enough you will know you see me but don't see me.
I just want to speak in my way so that I can truly let me go...

2.24.2010

I wrote this poem to use my way of speaking to encourage others to explore their way of speaking.

Sunday, September 11, 2011

The Technology Take- Over!

    It is amazing how much technology has changed the world and continues to do so on a daily basis. I find that I am not very literate when it comes to technology. It is sort of scary to think how many jobs and different ways of doing things have been replaced by technology. Communication has been particulary affected by technology. It is incredibly easy to communicate with oneanother on the surface but having/ making deeper and more authentic oppurtunities to communicate with others seems to get harder everyday. In our world it's harder to have face to face coversations that are constructive and real because in some ways, some (especially younger people) have less face to face communication time or need.
      Sometimes with all the ways to get and keep in touch with oneanother it seems there is not much need for ,verbal in person, communication. This is kind of sad to me because there are things that simply cannot be communicated through texting, email, facebook messages, or a twitter update. So much of communicating is seen on the face and the body language of the other person, which to me, leads to better understanding and deeper relationships with oneanother. This is why I feel that in some ways parts of communicating are getting completely lost in what I think of as the "technology shuffle". As much as I enjoy being able to get in touch with the people in my life at the touch of a button, I sometimes wish I could take part in more traditional ways of communicating. For instance writing letters; to me there is an endearing quality to recieving or giving someone a handwritten letter. I feel as though handwritten letters bring the words and messages that people are saying to eachother to life in a beautiful way. I miss traditional means of communication because sometimes simple gives more:(